BONDAGE FOR BEGINNERS

Many visit Passionate Jade wondering how to plan a wonderful evening for their partner – we are here to help. Whether it’s advice on products, how to use them to best advantage, which products to combine with others for an evening of fireworks – we can help so just hit us up.

One of the most common questions at the moment is how to experiment with bondage, and with a little planning you will have an evening to remember.

Here is our take on some of the great products we have available at Passionate Jade.

We believe it’s best to run the idea of bondage past your partner before the fact. Take note of whether they enjoy having their hands held down! Bring it up without putting pressure on them – just suggest it as something to try. While you are in the bedroom, it is a good idea for them to have a word to use if they are getting uncomfortable. This is sometimes called a ‘safe word’. Many people just use ‘red’. The reason for using a word like this, is because some like to struggle/pretend to want to escape, and part of that is them enjoying saying ‘no no no, let me go’ etc. This can result in proceedings stopping when really the person is on a roll and enjoying themselves! so discussing a ‘safe word’ can be very valuable to you both – if you’re the person doing the tying, you’ll know that you’re not stepping out of line, and have their enthusiastic consent to have your wicked, seductive way with them!

Start with tying their wrists and see how they go with that – it is much better to leave them wanting more, than to go too far. 

Once you have your partner at your mercy, you can apply something a bit special … On Arousal Gel by Sensuva. Haven’t heard of it before-? this is your secret weapon. It increases blood flow to the clitoris, making it extra sensitive and super responsive. Check the review!

 Of course we have something special for the person with a penis too (we’re supposing for this post, that you are a heterosexual couple. Stay tuned in later posts for other dynamics!)

The JNAJA company presents an ergonomic cock ring which is safe to be worn all day. Add one of these to your evening and you’ll both be purring. This will keep the wearer harder, for longer. The special  thing about this particular product, is that it is printed from nylon fibre – not ‘cold’ to wear, and coloured like stonewashed jeans. It will de-colour as time goes by, and become personalised to its owner. Cool!

 

 

As always, you are welcome to drop us a line if you’re wondering about anything specific. We can reply privately, or write a blog post (keeping you completely anonymous!)

If you are interested in more reading on this topic Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook is a great read. He outlines the importance of not cutting off blood flow and avoiding nerve damage.

Talk soon 

Jade xxx